Our ongoing struggle
In the mass-media, it’s how the ‘cookie crumbles,’ it’s entertaining to most of us, interdependently(not) feeling ‘alone’ or ‘ashamed’ (being gossiped about), in our ‘herds’ and supposed ‘communities,’ a term often misused by statisticians and mass-mediaanalysts, as-if they are actors or representatives of a bubble,’ although ambitious ‘leaders’ may well act as such and get away with it, or be ‘blamed’ for ‘its’ faults, in a recurring ‘blame-game’ in a figuration, seemingly ‘incrisis,’ like unemployment, disease, fire or draught, shaming or real sexual frustration: ‘Never waste a good crisis’ is an old advice among women and dealers in general: This rule/marker dependency may get so widespread, that people massively feel afraid of losing their ‘respect,’ or ‘home’ and unconsciously for being castrated (again). Divide and rule: Eat, drink, care, work,fuck, or not. Today only ‘feminists’ read Freud.
We are held, responsible and do this, sometimes consciously planned, but mostly not, depending on the ‘morality’ of the actor: DeoVolente! ‘Take the lead,’ or ‘‘charge,’ by introducing a competition, figuration or ‘theme’ or concept. Try it with a bunch of kids and ask them a rhetorical question. Do they answer? Sure! We are prone to this probing intimidation and to defer tos uch seemingly haphazard ‘orders,’ which is what they are.